Have you ever been shamed for your body? By others or even by yourself? I know the answer. I took photos with my dear friend @mckeelycreative before I came here on this journey and as I was scrolling through them I stopped at this one. My stomach. Hanging out. Right there. I knew right away it would be one of the pictures that never made it to the light of day but then I thought - you know what? That belly is a part of me no matter what. No matter how much weight I lose this is a moment in my life when I was happy and starting to make changes for myself. The beginning. It started in this body and this joyful belly laughing moment was a part of it. I’m celebrating it. I won’t be a better person with a flatter stomach. And that’s not the reason I’m here. I’ve always covered up when my shirt would slide up or my sides would stick out. I felt bashful that my soft rolling skin was coming out to see the light of day. In front of others. I once was getting a manicure and when I sat down in the tiny chair the back of my shirt lifted up and my sides stuck out. My nails were wet and I didn’t even try to adjust but the nail technician came over and did it for me and smiled and giggled and pulled my shirt down over my sides for me. She was embarrassed for me. I could tell. And I was embarrassed because she was. Never again. No shame. Let it out. All of it. Before you look at your next picture that you’re not happy with and shame yourself for your body and say how “fat” you look and feel, remember this belly, my belly. No matter how my body transforms in the future and how it’s changed over the last three months I want to be proud of me at all stages shapes and sizes. I will never shame her, the woman in this photo and her body. No matter how I grow and change. I won’t forget her. She was happy just as she was there and ready for a change. That’s why I’m posting this beautiful accident, a real moment among the other ones that are more polished and don’t show as much skin. A beautiful picture doesn’t have to be perfect. Celebrate all versions of ourselves and continue to be better because we want to be an deserve to be not just because of how we look❤️ 

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